Dawah Tips with Polish People
After receiving many requests on any tips on how to do Dawah with Polish people, that is, are there any extra issues people need to take in account, I decided to write some ideas based on my own experience and that of what I know of in the general Polish community. If any Muslims can add to this list, then that would be highly appreciated.
Now, I just want to clarify, this is not about “converting Polish people to Islam” but rather, often Polish people do want to know some things about Islam or ask questions…now some Muslims email me asking “what is the best way to answer their questions if they don’t speak English well” or “what things do I need to take into consideration” etc.
I’m also not claiming to be any expert, just a regular person who has observed a couple of things that may help.
Tips for dawah with Polish Catholics for a peaceful dialogue and promote understanding
- My friend personally invites Polish people to different events to mingle with Muslims, such as Ramadan Iftar and also a cultural event that was held in Poland, that they had (i.e. Arab gathering, where there is a mixture of Christian and Muslim Arabs, and it showed how they were getting along peacefully at this gathering, plus allowed for Muslims to talk to the Polish people, both about Islam and general things in life to break the ice. I do however give caution to cultural events; that is not actually about Islam itself and sometimes not a great idea, you have to investigate first to make sure its suitable. Another gathering to invite them is during Ramadan to share a meal when breaking fast (i.e. with any Polish friends you have made, or work colleagues). Even just inviting your Polish neighbor etc for a meal or tea is nice.
- Dialogue & questions in a laid back style, with some humor (where appropriate) and smiles are good. Even my friend mentioned that humor is pretty important with Polish people. I don’t mean to go overboard and be silly, but some humor helps break the ice. Some Polish people in my family had this image of Muslims being stern and never smiling, with no sense of humor, and got a change of heart when they meet my husband, and it did help and break that misconception.
- Anything pushy or that you are trying to convince them sort of thing, as my friend said to me using such words “my religion is best and only I am right and you are wrong” just doesn’t work. Well I once was saying to mum, few years back that wine is just evil, and I said it really harshly and bluntly, which didn’t work, as mum then shut her mind. She wasn’t ready to hear such things when she doesn’t even know what our prayers are about at that time! I did learn from my mistake Inshallah
